Whether you are looking for ways to inject some passion back into your sex life with a long-term partner or are trying to think of sexy ways to spice up an evening, there are always new pleasures out there yet to be explored. At the end of the day, adding some extra fun into the bedroom is only going to bring you and your partner closer as you experience new things and try different ways of making each other feel great.
A bedroom bucket list is a great way to think about what you want to try out under the sheets and open up a conversation about any fantasies you would like to explore. From different positions to more freaky experiences, here are three key areas to have a think about:
- Introduce sex toys
Whether you’ve given them a go in the past or have never ventured into the world of sex toys, there’s endless fun to be had. Being designed to please, experience new sensations that aren’t possible with your bodies alone so you can stimulate those hard to reach spots. Start with simpler toys such as vibrators, cock rings, and dildos to experiment with the basics and once you’re ready to divulge into the more kinky toys, look into double penetration sex toys, anal play, BDSM, or roleplay aids. Once you start experimenting with toys, you will never look back and can continually find new ways to switch up your sex life, finding different forms of pleasure and keeping the spark alive.
- Get out of the bedroom
Although we’re not here to get anyone arrested, having sex in a new place is a great way to get you out of your regular routine and add some excitement. Try out new locations around the house such as the sofa, kitchen counters, or the shower to make you try out new positions and get creative (regarding there’s nobody home!). If you want to take your creativity one step further, head outdoors and find some hidden areas to get down and dirty in and switch up your scenery. Of course, keep it legal, but finding a secluded spot to park up at in your car can really create a night to remember.
- Create a sexy game
If you’ve found yourself using the exact same positions every time you have sex or are finding yourself with a lower sex drive, plan some more fun ways to connect with your partner. The more build up you have, the more you will be able to not keep your hands off each other so maximise foreplay in a unique way. Strip poker is a great place to start, gradually losing items of clothing one piece at a time. To really drive them crazy, introduce sexy forfeits or rewards along the way to really tease each other and build towards a big finish!